Dating pakistani guys

Dating pakistani guys

This is not an ode to a Pakistani male. Nor an elegy. Nor even an apology. It is a statement of fact hopefully. A fact called the Pakistani male

5 Things to Know About Pakistani Men

Most of Pakistani men who were born and grew up in Pakistan will change after the wedding to be the real who they are. The location which next to Afghanistan made some of Muslim Pakistanis have radical Taliban thoughts. More conservative the family, the women will have less freedom and the men become more dominant and superior.

Even though most Pakistani women and men said that woman and man are equal in Pakistan but as the outsider from modern or liberal country we can say, "Nope". He might has so many female friends on his friend list but the feed is so clean from the shitty things. Pakistanis are normal human, they want to have a life too, but of course in the other hand, they need to keep their family reputation.

He has more responsibilities now, and he needs to teach his wife how to act to keep his reputation. Then, he changed to be what he really is. The girl--friend is not a girl--friend anymore. She is not the one whom he can show her off towards his mates. The girl--friend is his wife when they get married, and a wife is a part of his family. The one who will help him to take care of his entire family members and also help to keep his reputation. So, the Pakistani society can accept her easily.

The Pakistani man never ask her to change her lifestyle. Therefore, you need to be more cautious if the Muslim Pakistani man never ask you to change your western lifestyle and ask you to convert when he has conservative family. Some of the Pakistani men will tell that they are modern guy,. The reality can be different from what they say. Always double check what Pakistani says. Can't keep your male friends anymore.

Pakistani society never believe that male and female can just be a friend. Even in Pakistan they have many single sex schools and most Pakistani families prefer sending their daughters to female school. A girl going outside alone in Pakistan is not a good thing. In some big cities, the women have more freedom to go out by themselves but unfortunately, not all Pakistani will let their women to go outside the house alone.

Can't go out without your husband's permission. Only wear modest clothes. No more bikini, tank top, short pants. If you live in Pakistan, mostly they will ask you to wear Pakistani traditional clothes -- Shalwar Kameez. No double date. If you have married female friends, most Pakistani man will let you to meet your female friends but not including your friend's husband.

Most married Pakistani man also doesn't like the concept of hang out together with other couples. Can't accept male guest. The one who will meet the male guest is your husband or any male members in the family. If the Pakistani man is not at home, you are at home alone and no male, you can't invite male guest to enter your house.

Can't mingle with your Husband's friends. If your husband's friends visit your house. Sometimes the husband will ask your help to make drinks or snacks, but the person who will serve these foods and drinks to his friends is not you but him. Even in some occasions, the Pakistani husband will leave his wife in the house while he travels with his male mates to other cities or even overseas. Bringing a wife to hang out and travel with his mates is not a good thing. Can't talk about money and business.

Most wives in Pakistan also don't have access to manage the husband's money, if they want something they have to ask to her husband or to her mother in law if she lives in joint family house. No matter how busy you are if you have a job , you need to cook and do house duty. So don't treat him like the house duty is his job.

So don't expect the helper also can be your nanny or au pair. The kids are your job. This is not a father's job but a mother's job. Can't talk with male stranger on the street specially if you live in Pakistan. Talking with male strangers on the street can be a huge issue in Pakistan especially in small cities and village. They will think that you are a bad women or an easy target to 'pick up'.

This thing also can bring dishonor to your Pakistani husband and family. Can't be too friendly with males. Being polite and friendly are good but this thing is not good in Pakistani society specially if you do it to the men. Can't walk in front of your husband and can't walk too far from your husband. The wife shouldn't walk in front of the husband, it's a disgrace n Pakistani society.

Can't do sports in public place. Swimming in public pool or going to public gym can be a problem for Pakistani man. The women should do those activities in private place or in laddies hours. Pakistani man's family is number one. According to Pakistani culture, the daughter is belong to her husband's family after the wedding and she needs to take care of the husband's family.

Don't demand him to do the same with your own family, because in Pakistani culture the son is belong to his family not wife's family and most Pakistani family will have issue if the son is too inclined to his wife's family. Can't show any romance in front of Pakistanis. Maybe in your country to see the couple kissing on the street is a common thing but not in Pakistan.

Showing the romance like kissing, hugging, holding hands in front of Pakistanis is not polite even in front of the family members. If you are Muslim, you can't pray at mosque. Is it sound weird and not Islamic? Pakistanis believe that women are not allowed to pray at mosque, they have to pray at home. Consequently, many mosques in Pakistan don't provide a prayer place for women. Most of Pakistani women will pray at home even in Eid celebration. No privacy if you live in Pakistani joint family.

Have you imagined living together with many people in 1 house? Even they will put many people to sleep on living room because they don't have more room left. Don't expect your mother in law or sister in law to not knocking your door when you sleep at night, because sometimes it happens. They will knock your door only to show you their new clothes. So if you have 5 kids and no room left in the house for them, then you have to manage how to put your all kids together in your own room.

Many Pakistani people when they live in the same house, they will use all the stuffs as "public property". Thus, be ready when your sister in law finds your lipstick and she uses it straight away. Your Pakistani husband is yours only at night. Being a girl friend and being a wife are two different things. When you live in Pakistan and live in Pakistani joint family, as a wife you will be surrounded by sisters in law and mother in law while your Pakistani husband chilling with his friends and male cousins.

As a Pakistani's wife you will be busy with your house duty things and future kids, and your Pakistani husband will be busy with his job and his Pakistani mates. Therefore, the couple will have time to spend together mostly at night before going to bed. Be ready to get rejected when you call him on phone. If you are spoiled by your Pakistani man right now and you think that he is always available for you in 24 hours.

Then, you have to be ready to accept the change when you marry him. Most of them time Pakistani man will not pursue you as much as before you marry him. Before the wedding when he is with his mates, mostly he will take your call and be happy to show you off to his friends, but when he marries you he will reject your call. Not all Pakistani men will do the all these things.

More modern he is, will be less requirements towards you. What will Happen if You Marry Pakistani? August 27, Life in Pakistan. October 16, Anisa in Peshawar. June 14, Visa Marriage Crime. May 21, Pakistani Family System. May 20, This site was designed with the. Create your website today.

What is the typical stereotype of the Pakistani male? Your Pakistani date will be great fun and you'll share lots of happiness, smiles, good conversation and. To his highness, you will be the gateway to a dowry, the mother to his child and an assistant for his mother. Jackpot!.

Meena shared with us 5 things to know about Pakistani men based on her true story involving her boyfriend. She was a commentator here at polygamy She said she wanted to share with us some insight that may help others who are thinking of going down this path.

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Most of Pakistani men who were born and grew up in Pakistan will change after the wedding to be the real who they are. The location which next to Afghanistan made some of Muslim Pakistanis have radical Taliban thoughts. More conservative the family, the women will have less freedom and the men become more dominant and superior.

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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. Any experiences? I recently met a guy who is Pakistan-American. He's American, completely "westernized" and lives in New Jersey. He lives with his parents, which is a turn-off to me for someone in their mids I am very independent and like my men to be too!

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